File for Diana Nagornov
SSN: 070700A6781
Email: maxim.v.nagornov@gmail.com
Phone: 0405252053
Address: Isonjärventie 28 D
Postal code: 02940
City: Espoo
Country: FI


Appointments:

START 2018-02-22 16:15:00 - END 2018-02-22 17:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan. 1-3 tutustuminen</p>
<p><strong>Asiaks tuli ja sovimme seuraavan ajan</strong></p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>: Asiaks rauhallinen, l&auml;sn&auml; ja hyvin itse&auml;&auml;n kuvaava/itsest&auml;&auml;n kertova.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Asiaks kuvaa motivaation puutetta ja tulimme siihen ett&auml; se voi johtua &auml;idin tarpeesta auttaa tyt&auml;rt&auml;, mutta kyvytt&ouml;myydest&auml; antaa asiakkaalle omaa tilaa ja onnistumisen kokemuksia.</p>
<p>Sovimme ett&auml; kirjoitan is&auml;lle ja kuvaan h&auml;nelle tilannetta:&nbsp;</p>
<pre>Hello Maxim

It was a pleasure to meet Diana, who is a nice, intelligent, cind and
compassionate person, who seem to prefer what others need, with the
cost of what she needs. I did get her permit to write to you and
I want to say that it sounds in my ears that Diana has a reactive
stress, witch can partly be explained by her relation to her mother.

Diana has to bee able by her self to try to put a limit on, how much her mother
helps her, so she can feel by her self, that she can manage by her own
and that she is able to succeed by her own. Now she can not feel these feelings, witch are
very important for her feeling of integrity and self confidens.

There for I ask your help to be in background to support Dianas mother to give Diana more space
and to support Dianas mother, if it is too heavy for her to give Diana the space she needs.

Best regards

Wilhelm<br /><br /><br /></pre>
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Patient paid €95 for appointment.


START 2018-03-06 18:15:00 - END 2018-03-06 19:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan. 1-3 tutustuminen</p>
<p><strong>Asiaks ei tullut ja peruutti n kaksi tuntia ennen aikaa. Peruutus 15:52 ja aika 18:15.&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p><em>"Hei Wilhelm, en valitettavasti p&auml;&auml;se t&auml;n&auml;&auml;n tulemaan koska tunnen oloni v&auml;h&auml;n kipe&auml;ksi"</em></p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>:</p>
Patient paid €95 for appointment.


START 2018-03-13 16:15:00 - END 2018-03-13 17:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p><strong><em>Asiaks ei tullut, eik&auml; ilmoittanut peruuttamisesta ennen kuin otin yhteytt&auml; terapiatunnin alkamis hetkell&auml;</em>.&nbsp;</strong>Sovimme ensi viikolle uuden ajan.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan. 1-3 tutustuminen</p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>:</p>
Patient paid €95 for appointment.


START 2018-03-21 16:15:00 - END 2018-03-21 17:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p>asikas tuli ja sovimme ensi viikolle uuden ajan.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan ja tapaamme toistaiseksi</p>
<p>Olemme sopineet ja asiakas on suostunut siihen ett&auml; voimme tarvittaessa kommunikoida Whatsapp viesteill&auml; tapaamisten v&auml;liss&auml; (asiakas rekisteriin tulee kirjaukset kaikista hoidon kannalta ja potilaan terveyden kannalta, oleellisista asioista).</p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>:</p>
<p>Teema: stressinhalinta kekniikoita, l&auml;sn&auml;olo, mindfullness, itsemy&ouml;t&auml;tunto</p>
<p>Is&auml;n s&auml;hk&ouml;posti:</p>
<p>13.03</p>
<p>Hello, Wilhelm, here is some update on the situation. I had few discussions with the teachers last weeks. Some findings below:</p>
<div dir="auto">- there were special different settings organised for Diana during last several&nbsp; tests: remote desk, separate room, etc. Not much improvement detected if at all</div>
<div dir="auto">- Diana is generally positive about school and learning.&nbsp;</div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Diana is rather active and well cooperates with mates during any practical activities: labs, discussions, presentations, etc</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- When it comes to individual tasks (write down the lecture essence, calculate exercise, etc) Diana is very reluctant. Her papers are left empty in most of cases. They noticed a problem in ability to concentrate and focus on task without external factor</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Also the problems are seen to push herself doing something that is not very pleasant or interesting, especially when nobody will check the results.</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- teachers promised to check her actual knowledge level during regular classes.&nbsp;</span></div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">Another case I want you to know is about Olli. Apparently&nbsp; Diana should tell you about her relationships in details herself if she wants to. Just some facts that both in our and teachers' opinion are relevant.</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Olli is very intelligent and sensitive person&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Olli has left the lyceum in the beginning of the year. But according to teachers he stopped learning already before Christmas.</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Diana had spent lots of her time together with Olli during lessons since autumn. The same time her performance dropped dramatically.&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Teachers couldn't figure out what was the reason Olli decided to leave, but apparently he lost the motivation to study there. One of the guess is that he got in trouble to work in the environment with much higher competition than in the past. He was actually very successful in his previous school. Teachers noticed the signs of the attitude "I can easily do it at any time, why should I bother?&nbsp; Let others fight for the marks".</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- Diana's ability to concentrate and cooperate gradually improved since Olli left.&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">This may sound as a simple reason for her problems at her age, but I think it's not the only one.</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">So, all in all the problems are wider than just stress before examination. It is really loosing the motivation to study and inability to make herself working. We never put her in competition with anyone for good or bad, just with herself and her talents and potential. However, the reason may be the fear of failure to meet the success criteria (whoever puts it). We do not insist on excellent marks, but she considers us successful in our life, so this may be her personal criteria that she is afraid to fail. She sometimes tells that she may be not that talented or "smart" as we think.&nbsp;</span></div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">So, we still do not know what are the root causes of loosing motivation and inability to perform:</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- laziness and not understanding the consequences&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- severe fear of failure&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- disappointments</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">- lack of internal&nbsp;</span><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">power to force herself (stress, health problems??) even if she understands the size of the problem</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">We apparently need your help. She has 3 "final" exams this May. She can actually retake them next year, but then they will go on top of five others that will be extremely tough.</span></div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">BR,&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">Maxim&nbsp;</span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">040 525 2053&nbsp;</span></div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">22.02</span></div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Thank you, Wilhelm. Agreed, I will talk to Julia and we will think what's the best way to control this. As far as I understood you have already agreed about the next session next week, just need to fix the date. Do you feel this is necessary now? I certainly support this if you feel it's good.</div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">BR,</div>
<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Maxim</div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">vastaukseni tapaamisen j&auml;keen: </span></div>
<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">Hello Maxim<br /><br /> It was a pleasure to meet Diana, who is a nice, intelligent, cind and<br /> compassionate person, who seem to prefer what others need, with the<br /> cost of what she needs. I did get her permit to write to you and<br /> I want to say that it sounds in my ears that Diana has a reactive<br /> stress, witch can partly be explained by her relation to her mother.<br /><br /> Diana has to bee able by her self to try to put a limit on, how much her mother<br /> helps her, so she can feel by her self, that she can manage by her own<br /> and that she is able to succeed by her own. Now she can not feel these feelings, witch are<br /> very important for her feeling of integrity and self confidens.<br /><br /> There for I ask your help to be in background to support Dianas mother to give Diana more space<br /> and to support Dianas mother, if it is too heavy for her to give Diana the space she needs.<br /><br /> Best regards<br /><br /> Wilhelm</span></div>
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<div dir="auto"><span style="font-family: sans-serif;">16.02</span></div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Dear Wilhelm, we are searching for helping our 17 y.o. daughter to deal with study motivation and stress at the tests. Her results went down dramatically close to null on almost all tests during last 8 months while showing the actual knowledge in the classroom and individual discussions. The situation comes to critical as the last study year is in front of us.</div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Looking for help I came across your profile on Vastaamo site that looked very promising as I believe professional psychologist help is what is needed versus the "regular" therapy session.</div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Please advise your ASAP availability and possible rate.</div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Thank you very much in advance.</div>
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<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Sincerely Yours,</div>
<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">Maxim Nagornov</div>
<div class="gmail_default" style="font-family: arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: small;">0405252053</div>
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Patient paid €95 for appointment.


START 2018-04-11 17:15:00 - END 2018-04-11 18:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p>asiakas ei tullut, mutta sovimme ensi viikolle uuden ajan kun otin h&auml;neen yhteytt&auml;, koska h&auml;n ei peruuttanut eik&auml; itse ottanut minuun yhteytt&auml;. .&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan ja tapaamme toistaiseksi</p>
<p>Olemme sopineet ja asiakas on suostunut siihen ett&auml; voimme tarvittaessa kommunikoida Whatsapp viesteill&auml; tapaamisten v&auml;liss&auml; (asiakas rekisteriin tulee kirjaukset kaikista hoidon kannalta ja potilaan terveyden kannalta, oleellisista asioista).</p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>:</p>
Patient paid €95 for appointment.


START 2018-05-07 19:15:00 - END 2018-05-07 20:00:00
MEETING NOTES:
<p>asiakas tuli ja h&auml;nell&auml; oli is&auml; mukana, sovimme ett&auml; he ottavat yhteytt&auml; halutessaan seuraavan ajan</p>
<p><strong>Tulosyy:&nbsp;</strong>opiskelu motivaation puute, tentti stressi</p>
<p><strong>L&auml;&auml;kitys:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Toinen hoitotaho:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Itsetuhoisia ajatuksia:&nbsp;</strong>ei</p>
<p><strong>Hoitosuunnitelma:&nbsp;</strong>Asiakas varaa tarvittaessa seuraavan ajan ja tapaamme toistaiseksi</p>
<p>Olemme sopineet ja asiakas on suostunut siihen ett&auml; voimme tarvittaessa kommunikoida Whatsapp viesteill&auml; tapaamisten v&auml;liss&auml; (asiakas rekisteriin tulee kirjaukset kaikista hoidon kannalta ja potilaan terveyden kannalta, oleellisista asioista).</p>
<p><strong>Oleellista asiakkaan voinnista</strong>:</p>
<p>Teema: &Auml;idin kasvatus (lapsen pit&auml;&auml; saada olla lapsi - mik&auml; tarkoittaa &auml;idille ett&auml; lapsi ei saa tehd&auml; ja saada onnistumisen kokemuksia)&nbsp; - asiakkaalla vahva suorittamisen pelko ja pine, riitt&auml;m&auml;tt&ouml;myyden ja ep&auml;onnistumisen tunne - ja vanhemmilla vahvoja ja selke&auml;sti esitettyj&auml; olotuksia - is&auml; my&ouml;nt&auml;&auml; avoimesti odotuksen ja my&ouml;nt&auml;&auml; h&auml;nen vaikeudet ottaa huomioon ja kommunikoida tunteita - sovimme ett&auml; seuraavalla kerralla &auml;iti tulee mukaan.&nbsp;</p>
Patient paid €95 for appointment.


